Summary: Not all guys actually judge women for having casual hookups, but in certain cases, some guys may think that a woman who casually hooks up is lowering her standard. A woman's worth should not be defined by what she does though, but some men might judge her regardless. However, this might only be a handful of men and so women do not have to worry about what guys think because everyone has the option to make individual choices that are right for them. In the grand scheme of things, most guys are thinking of how good the woman is in bed and not necessarily how long it took him to get her into his bed.

There are actually no set guidelines or rules or even a magic number as to how someone should live their lives. If a girl is promiscuous, she is sometimes judged by men, even though, there may be experiences that cause her to live this way or she just decides to live her life on her terms. What is wrong with that? Whether you are a girl or guy, you can have casual hookups, if you choose to, but it is all about how you do it and possibly with whom.

All of us have choices though and a woman's or man's choice to hook up with someone casually should not be judged on anyone's terms as long as the two people have consented to hooking up. There are also people that will call you names, even if they don't know anything about you. So, never live your life to please others.

Lately, there has been quite a lot of discussion about the hookup culture. Women have embraced the whole concept, especially those women that don't want a long term or committed relationship. Some women are also tired of the traditional relationships, especially women who have tried it numerous times and it has not worked out for them.

Casual hookups have become quite dominant nowadays. Women are finding out that this type of relationship works best for them. Some have started causal hookups since their college years and throughout their twenties, for the simple reason that it works out better for them ad seems more logical since it keeps them away from any commitments.

A casual hookup allows the woman to spend less time worrying about putting in time into a relationship that may not eventually go anywhere. The emotional attachment is not there and so it is easier for her not to get heartbroken. Her one reason for hooking up is to satisfy her physical pleasure. What's wrong with that? There are a lot of guys that have been doing this and claim that this is a man's world and not for a woman. However, there is a double standard and hypocrisy when you think about it because women do have physical needs too. It should not be such a big deal for women because it was never a big deal for men. Yes, while this may be a man's game women have to be counted in the mix as well because their human needs do matter.

When a woman is chosen by a guy for a casual hookup, it is usually not for the purpose of determining her worth, but enjoying her company and the physical pleasure that is the main reason for the sexual connection. Most men will look at the woman's physical attractiveness to establish whether or not she is his type and whether or not he wants to be with her. He doesn't usually think about sleeping with her and calling her a tramp or whore. That is the furthest thing from his mind. He sees his target and goes after it with the intention of getting laid. Whether they hook up again is beside the point. He is only thinking of that specific time when he is staring at her across the room. He puts his game face on and goes after his target with the hope of scoring big. It is going to be the woman's decision whether she accepts his advances or not. If both of them are horny and want to go have sex, it is a mutual decision and afterwards, the man is not going to judge her for the actual hookup. He will judge her for whether she was good in bed or not.

Men have lower standards than women do when it comes to casual hookups. They will be the first to admit that. And so, if you hook up with a guy for the first and only time, his standards are already low and will not judge you for accepting his advances. Every one of us has skeletons in our closets and most guys know this. They are walking around with many skeletons themselves. Judging someone for quenching their sexual thirst is something that guys do not naturally do since they are doing the same thing. When a woman meets a guy, she usually chooses to have a casual hookup, if there is a mutual attraction or if she simply likes the guy. She also chooses the guy, if she thinks that he is worth her time. If this guy that she hooks up with goes out and spreads rumors about their encounter or judges her for being too easy to get, then he is a hypocrite and not a high caliber guy. That is why a woman has to make the right choice.

There is a difference between having sex with everyone on the football team and having a casual hookup. No one should call you a tramp, if you choose to casually hookup with someone you are attracted to. In the case of the entire football team, though, this is where you may lose. With each guy you meet, you have to decide how far you will go and you have to make sure that he is of the highest caliber and not someone who is shallow enough to judge you negatively for hooking up with him in the first place. He would be a jerk. With that being said, a woman who has casually hooked up with a guy should not care what he says afterwards. She should hold her head high and move on to the next catch, but do so with caution and use the experiences of the past to make the appropriate choice. A woman should do what makes her happy and comfortable and do it at her own pace and with her own boundaries and expectations.

Some women might believe that sleeping with a man too soon will drive him away, but who cares? If it is a casual hookup, then it doesn't matter, right? There are some things to keep in mind, though. If a man judges you for sleeping with him one time or multiple times, you really are not missing out on anything because he is going to be just one hookup. It is not like you are going to date him anyway. He will be forgotten after a short while unless he was a good lay. For most guys, when a woman shows the willingness to have sex with him, it is a bonus for him because he wants to get laid. Some guys may not think a woman is relationship material, but he will still have sex with her, if she offers to. In the grand scheme of things, she will not have lost anything valuable by doing so.

In the times that we are living, casual hookups are becoming more acceptable than they were in the past. If one guy wants to judge a woman for having casual hookups, he is just one guy and he does not speak for all guys. All men don't think like that. Most men don't care about your reputation or anything else. They just want to get laid and if the sex is good, they may want to hook up more than once. Otherwise, they want to experience sex with you and move on without all the drama left behind. It is usually other women that judge you and not the MEN! Yes, other females will likely call you all kinds of name; some out of jealousy and others that don't know how to mind their own business. Men tend to value the way you have sex with them and not necessarily devalue who you are. Other females do the opposite. They devalue you without understanding the concept and joy of hooking up casually. But does their opinion really count? It really doesn't. You are getting laid regularly and they might not be. That is the reason for the controversy and bad opinion of you.

On the contrary, most men will adapt to casual hookups, even if they haven't experienced it before. They will think it is cool to have sex without the commitment of a long term relationship. It is easy for a man to adapt to this because it reduces pressure on them. So, in many cases, men won't pass judgment on a woman, if she sleeps around casually. A man will be more focused on having good sex and when the encounter is over, he goes his way and she goes her way. It is that simple for most guys. If a guy considers a woman to be less than she is because she slept with him on day one, then he is not even worth the time of day. He is probably only thinking of himself and how many women he can score. A woman is supposed to express her sexual desire any way she wants. If she wants to add to the score of men she sleeps with, it is nobody's business. Most guys don't care either way. They are adding up their own scores and that is all they are thinking about. It's not like the guy is going to be married to her after sex. She is probably not going to even remember his name and vice versa. The sex is the only denominator between them. So why should it be a problem if the woman wants to give up her 'coochie' for some good sex and then forget about it? Her score is not as important to her as it is to the guy, but she can have some unforgettable memories, if you think about it.

If the guy has any kind of contempt having slept with a woman as soon as he meets her, then there is something to be said about him. He is not only a jerk, but taking something from the woman and complaining about it. You would call him ungrateful, a fibber and not someone who should feel entitled to get a woman in bed for the first time. The guy who appreciates a woman for what she gives sexually for the first time is the guy that is worth the time of day. A guy who is able to accept casual hookups and not think twice about it is way above the fray and understands that we are living in modern times and the way that women were judged in the past is different. He will be mature about the whole sexual encounter and respect her privacy afterwards, knowing that she may also feel bad about giving it up so quickly. Once there is an attraction and connection, most guys know to keep their mouth shut after that first casual hookup. They are more focused on themselves and their needs rather than on the woman herself.

If a guy considers himself to be a good lover in the sack, a woman's drawbacks will appear to be more tolerable. The bottom line is that some guys will be quick to take note that you are easy to get, if you go to bed with him for the first time, but many guys will think nothing of it. If you and a guy have sex on the first encounter, it doesn't mean that he thinks you will be like that with all other guys. Most guys understand that it has a lot to do with genuine attraction and connection between two people to make a one-nighter possible. Most guys think about your abilities in the bedroom than how long it took him to get you there.

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