"Karezza" basically means "caress," and though it seems like a new idea, the practice that is known by its technical name of coitus reservatus has been around for a long, long time. There are a lot of connected terms, too, which doesn't help with the confusion, from venus butterfly and eroto-comatose lucidity to sex magic and Taoist sex techniques such as cai Yin pu Yang and cai Yang pu Yin... The simple answer is that "karezza sex" focuses on the act of sensual sex without orgasm. While that may not sound like a lot of fun, some people swear by it -- and some others may wonder what the difference is!

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It means pulling out before you come, in case you did not know that. It's sometimes used as a way of reducing the risk of pregnancy, though it does not eliminate the risk of STIs. But that is not the topic at hand here. So the idea is that you just don't have an "O"? Well, what is the point of that? Surely the whole idea of sex was to pass on your genes, with the male orgasm being the ejaculation of life giving seed, and the female orgasm being... uh, some kind of reward for being submissive?

Nope. What we are talking about here is the erotic and esoteric art of holding off on orgasm so as to increase the pleasure of sex. If you want to learn the art of Karezza sex, then you first have to learn how to not jizz as soon as you get inside your partner.

It's not new at all -- folks have been doing it without finishing the job for centuries. Well, if you include women's experiences with men, probably since the dawn of humanity, judging by some Neathdethals we've known... Okay, joking aside, the art of having great Karezza sex goes back a LONG way, even if it has been under another name.

More or less, but not entirely. The other side of it is closeness to your partner, and the caressing that gives Karezza sex its name. Stroking and gentle love making is the name of the game here. The basic ideas is that you hold off on having the big O until the very last minute, or as some folk who do this kind of sex will tell you, not to have one at all. In fact, some folk who do this kind of sex will often say that the journey is so much better than the arrival -- and they might have a point there, since some of the reviews of Karezza sex will tell you that the people who do it can last hours and hours in the sack, which is something that must be good right? Just so long as you have enough lube handy, if you know what we are saying... Connect, bond, and relax. let these be your key words when you embark on a journey through Karezza sex.

Ever since folks have been having Tantric sex, the goal of orgasm that is central to straight forward normal sex has been pushed to one side in favor of taking time and effort to have an amazing sex act that focuses on bonding with another person on a spiritual level and in a way that forms a deep connection both on the outer and inner planes. Any two or more lovers can try it -- go to a sex club or party and indulge in Karezza sex there, or try it with your husband or wife, boyfriend or girlfriend, or even try it with a close friend if you do not happen to have a lover at the time. The great thing about this kind of sex is that it encourages respect to be built up over the time of the sex act, but in a very emotional and warm and sexual way that is meant to inspire a greater level of sensual love making than you may have been used to before you and your lover started down the wonderful path toward sexual awakening and enlightenment in the physical arts of sex and love. You have a fun journey ahead of you!

In the sense that this kind of sex act makes it more possible to have slow and intimate sex, yes it is true that the art of Karezza sex does indeed bring couples closer together. The key word here is intimacy, as it is that closeness that helps the two people in the sex act come closer to each other. The fact that intimacy is the number one way to make sure that the sex you have with someone else is really great is also the same reason why folk in the kinds of set ups where they have god sex of the intimate ind will tell you that they are closer with their partner or partners. These kinds of get togethers often last longer than others -- or at least , that is what the numbers will tell you. 4 out of 5 marriages that last the test of time can be ascribed to greater feelings of intimacy, so don't just take our word for it! Want to stay with your partner for a real long time -- like forever? Then why not give sensual, slow and loving sex a go!

1. It teaches you to respect your lover's body. Is this a good thing -- well, yes, of course it is. When you start to really pay some dues to your other half you will start to see that you respect them a whole lot more as a lover, as a person, as a friend, and as a fellow human being.

2. It leads to better sex. See the above. When you love someone you have better sex with them. In most cases, that is. Some folk just want to bang, and to them that is a good way to indicate whether the sex has been good or not. But the fact is that there is a whole world of sex out there that is better than a good hard bang.

3. By taking the focus off orgasm, it by necessity takes the focus off of YOUR orgasm. This then in turn will lead you to be a better and more attentive lover. There is much to be said for a move away from a phallocentric view of sex, and this has been the main thrust (no pun intended -- honest) of feminist sex theory.

4. It can turn a less that good relationship into a great -- or least better -- one. By taking that extra time to really get toy know your other half's body and slowing sex right down, you create an intimate world that is really good for just plain old getting on with another person. You will find that you fight less, and when you do fight -- because let's face it, every couple has fights -- you will be more respectful of each other.

5. It can make you a better person all round. Words like patient, generous, and attentive spring to mind. Want to be described in these terms? Why not give this new and very fashionable sex style a go, then!

1. Talk. It gets overlooked, but actually having a conversation is the best way to get close to a person.

2. Put away the phone. The rise of the smart phone has all but killed intimacy. Let's blame dopamine, sure, but the real reason everyone whips out the phone every time it gets quiet is because we've become mentally lazy and addicted to bite sized info nuggets. This ties in with the point above -- you know, the one about talking?

3. Have normal sex. What's normal sex, you say? Whatever you want that's not against the law, just not karezza sex. Because it's a bit meh.

4. Go on dates. Many long term couples forget that they need to keep DOING things together.

5.Go on a holiday together. It is a fun way to see the world and to bond with your significant other.

Yes and no. The fact is, this kind of sex has been around for a long, long time and it most likely will prevail as long as humans do. But the name karezza will probably not last as it has not permeated the human consciousness to a great enough degree, and probably will not ever attain that kind of status. Is it a fad? Only time will tell, but we are going to go out on a limb and suggest that the name will be forgotten but the practice will go on. After all, really great sex is the best way to live a full and happy relationship with another person. The evidence? Well, sex is never going to go away -- in fact, as Bill Hicks said, more or less, you can tell that people have always had sex because we are here. But good sex -- that comes with patience and a certain amount of care and attention.

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