You can have perfect NSA sex, if you go into it with no crazy expectations and if you are ready to embrace an untraditional form of hooking up. You would have to be the person who values your space and wants no commitment. More importantly, you have to be ready for some fun and excitement.

Are you interested in getting into a NSA fling? This means that there will be no strings attached and you can be yourself without having to feel any pressure or obligation for any kind of commitment. Many girls and guys like the idea of being in a NSA relationship because it is so low key, down to earth, open and less stressful. You don't feel like you are being tied down and there are no hassles to deal with. You can actually have your cake and eat it.

The first thing, though, is to find out if this is the kind of relationship that will work for you or not. While, it may work for some people, it might not work for everyone. Yes, it is a lot of fun. However, not everyone can handle it. This kind of relationship could get to a level where it feels like it is love, but it is not. So there are fine lines that you may or may not want to cross. At first, it might start as lust and if you are not careful, you can grow to love that person. While it last as lust, then that is where the fun is. You have to protect your heart at every junction because if you cross those fine lines, you could get into some real deep shit!

For some people a no strings attached relationship may begin with lots of fun and then turn into romance, if you are not careful. For other people, it might end in jealousy and insecurity. And in some cases, one or the other person may get hurt and it is no longer fun anymore. It could end in both parties becoming enemies. To avoid all of that, it is best to be honest and upfront from the beginning. It is also important to set specific boundaries and lower the expectations. You cannot have any future goals or objectives in this scenario. It is going to be one day at a time and one moment at a time in some cases. You have to just live in each moment and create memories that you can cherish.

If, however, you don't want to be in a committed relationship and don't want to answer to anyone, an NSA relationship may be the perfect solution. If you are in a bad relationship and want a way to be happy and just do YOU, then NSA sex is the answer. However, in this case, you may have to keep it a secret from the person in your bad relationship. It is going to be like having an affair. But, at the same time, you will have someone else meeting your physical needs and that in itself is enough to make you feel happy. If you don't want to get married at all and don't want to live with anyone, NSA sex is perfect.

If you have been cheated on and you want to get back at your lover, choose NSA sex for the perfect solution. NSA sex is simply a casual hookup experience where both individuals have the same objective of having sex with no strings attached. There are no commitments and both parties are OK with it. You could create your own fairy tale this way.

If you have experienced a bad breakup and don't want to get into another relationship so soon, then NSA sex is ideal. This bad breakup could put you on the rebound and so you have to be careful not to get knee deep into another serious relationship. NSA sex keeps you from making another commitment so soon to another person. Bad breakups are not easy on the heart. They take a while to get over, especially if you have been in one for a long time. They leave scars that take time to heal. And so, take your time getting to know someone else. At least, with NSA sex, you don't have to give your heart and there are no obligations. This kind of sex is easy on the heart as long as you decide that it is not going anywhere but in the bedroom.

If you are not in an existing committed relationship or a traditional relationship, then NSA sex could serve you good until you make the necessary changes by inviting someone permanent in your life. Sometimes, NSA sex can work while in a traditional relationship, but this could get too complicated. It is best to do this while you are single and uncommitted.

Are you the kind of person that loves your space and want it to remain that way, but you love having sex on a regular basis? Then NSA sex would work for you because you just fill up your sexual tank and go right back into your space for your alone time. You are the kind of person that can separate love from liking someone enough to have sex with them.

Not everyone wants to be in a relationship...period. Some people prefer to stay single, but that doesn't mean that you don't want your physical needs met. You are human and so that is a given. NSA sex would work for you in this case because then you maintain your single life while still being able to satisfy your physical needs.

Some people don't want to be tied down in life. They want to try out all the nice, cute and sexy females that are out there. They prefer to stay single while they have casual hookups with different girls. Some girls feel the same way about guys. In this case an NSA relationship would prove to be the best solution.

If you want to explore your options before getting into a long term relationship, you would definitely benefit from NSA sex. You may be too young to settle down or you are just not ready. NSA sex would be a fun way of playing the field and trying out new hookups to see if anyone of them pans out. You have the right to do so on your terms.

NSA sex works more for the individual who is mature and knows how to disassociate the idea of love from a sexual encounter. It is a challenge, of course because as humans, we may end up having emotional feelings for the other party, especially if you are having frequent sex with the same person. However, maturity does help and especially, if you have an understanding that this is just a temporary situation that cannot go any further than it currently is. Be honest to yourself and do not try to sweep your feelings under the rug. However, if you start falling in love with your NSA sex partner, you may need to call it quits or discuss it with them to see where it will go, if any.

With NSA sex, the idea of finding your soulmate should go out the door. Your focus should be on a physical attraction and nothing else. You will be sleeping with someone because you like them. You may even end up sleeping with someone that is way younger than you and there is no future with them, but the possibilities of good sex, fun and excitement makes it well worth it. You can enjoy a sexual rendezvous with someone without the guilty feelings. You don't have to worry about how the person physically looks as long as they perform well in the bedroom. If you were to have the tables turn and looking for a soulmate, then the physical features would be more important to you. In other words, you would look at someone's height, hair length, nose, eye color, weight and other things as prerequisites to being with them. With an NSA sex partner, this is not the case.

Even though, you will be in a guilt-free, no strings attached relationship; it would serve you well to still be honest. Don't lie about the fact that you just want to get the person in bed. Get it out in the open that you are only looking for a casual hookup. You don't have to give the person a fake phone number or ask the person for a phone number when you don't intend to call. Be forthright about your intentions.

One thing to note is that you should never have a casual hookup with good friends, if you are looking for a no strings attached relationship. Remember, if it doesn't work out, you might jeopardize your friendship. It is never good to combine sex with emotional intimacy. If you fell for your friend in the process, then the friendship could go A-wall!

Never let your emotions get the best of you. If you involve your emotions, then you are going to be hurt. If you have a crush on the person already, then don't have NSA sex with that person. If you have deep feelings for someone, the same thing is true. Don't use that excuse to get close to the person or you will get hurt, especially if the person is not into you as you are into them.

To have perfect NSA sex, make sure you use protection. Yes, condoms will help you to feel safe and then the sex will be more enjoyable with no worries about pregnancy or STDs. There is no way that you would enjoy sleeping with someone when you have to be concerned whether the person will give you some type of disease or get you pregnant.

Make sure that you sit down with your NSA sex partner and have an adult conversation, making it clear why you want this arrangement and what the boundaries of the arrangement should be. Make it clear that this is just a casual hookup and nothing else.

Make sure that this casual hookup is not with a random stranger. Get to know the person a little better before having a no strings attached affair. You don't have to go on dates to familiarize yourself with the person. Talk over the phone or send text messages before initiating NSA sex.

Remember that there is going to be an end to this. Brace yourself for this. 'No strings attached relationships' will not last for a very long time. In the meantime, make sure as long as you are in one of them, put on your fun hat. Have a blast for as long as it lasts and keep it moving. Do things that you like and have never been able to do them. Live out your fantasies. This is the perfect time to do so.

Try not to have an NSA sexual encounter with your ex. This is not going to be easy not to get the emotions involved. Yes, the sex may be good and it might work out for a minute, but you put yourself at risk for falling in love all over again. If it was a bad relationship in the past, you run the risk of getting back to that bad place again.

NSA sex is the ideal solution to curing your heartbreak. It will help you to stop thinking about a past heartbreak and get you in a different frame of mind. While, it might not be a replacement for trying to get over an ex, it can definitely help you in many ways, keeping you occupied until you figure out what you are going to do for the future.

If you want to have a good NSA sexual relationship, you have to be selfish. It is all about you having fun. You have to leave commitment on the back burner. You have to keep your heart out of it so that you don't get hurt. Make it a pleasure party and nothing else. Never get carried away. Be safe and enjoy the ride.

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